Love is Louder...than a heartbreak

Do you believe in destiny? Or is it God? Whatever it maybe that you believe defines our paths in life, there is a reason for all actions. Maybe we are supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally do meet that right person, we will know how to be grateful. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but so too often we stare at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for our new journey in love. You cannot make someone love you, don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. A broken heart can hurt like hell, but that feeling will pass. You deserve someone who looks at you and asks themselves how they got so lucky. If the one you love doesn’t feel that way with you then you deserve better, to be loved unconditionally. Take the heartbreak as a thank you; its pointing you in the direction of finding your soul mate.

I thought I was in love, yes I was head over hills for someone, and when it ended I felt the pain physically in the pit of my stomach. It was one of the worst feelings, to have loved someone so much that it hurts when they didn't love me back. I am so grateful for that first "love" and "heartbreak" because it pointed me in the direction of the most wonderful man and I couldn't be happier. If I would have stopped living because of that one heartbreak I wouldn't be where I am today, in love even more then I was before.

You just need to remember that there is always another door opening to a greater adventure and the hurt your feeling now will pass and you will love again!