Love is Louder...than a heartbreak

Do you believe in destiny? Or is it God? Whatever it maybe that you believe defines our paths in life, there is a reason for all actions. Maybe we are supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally do meet that right person, we will know how to be grateful. When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but so too often we stare at the closed door that we don’t see the one that has been opened for our new journey in love. You cannot make someone love you, don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be content it grew in yours. A broken heart can hurt like hell, but that feeling will pass. You deserve someone who looks at you and asks themselves how they got so lucky. If the one you love doesn’t feel that way with you then you deserve better, to be loved unconditionally. Take the heartbreak as a thank you; its pointing you in the direction of finding your soul mate.

I thought I was in love, yes I was head over hills for someone, and when it ended I felt the pain physically in the pit of my stomach. It was one of the worst feelings, to have loved someone so much that it hurts when they didn't love me back. I am so grateful for that first "love" and "heartbreak" because it pointed me in the direction of the most wonderful man and I couldn't be happier. If I would have stopped living because of that one heartbreak I wouldn't be where I am today, in love even more then I was before.

You just need to remember that there is always another door opening to a greater adventure and the hurt your feeling now will pass and you will love again!

Love Is Louder...than negativity

Your vibes rub off onto one another. If you are having a bad day for any reason, then you run into someone that is grumpy it turns your day from bad to worse. I say to always stay positive and smile at strangers because you don’t know how their day may be going, you could change someone’s day around with just a few positive words, or even just a smile.

I would say that I am a very positive person, don’t get me wrong I have my days but for the most part I always smile at others, whether it be strangers, friends, or coworkers, whether I’m having a good or bad day because I would rather have put a positive spin on someone else’s day than to have made theirs worse.


I was at the gym the other day in a group spin class and the instructor came up a few times to ask me how I was doing even though I was sweating like a pig and tired, with a huge smile replied everytime "great!" She smiled, laughed and told me that I am such a "happy person".  I took it as a compliment. So I say SMILE because it could change someone’s day! J

Love is Louder...than hurtful words

The fact is, people like to gossip, it is one thing that’s never going to stop in our society. People talk about others for multiple reasons, to make themselves feel better about one’s self, to purposefully hurt someone, to look cool in front of their friends, or to just to make conversation. The question is not why people say hurtful words; it’s about what you do with the words. You know what they say is not true, the people that love and respect you know it’s not true, so take those words as praise that you are special enough that someone is thinking about you, no matter what they say, they took the time out of their day to think about you, to talk about you whether it be good or bad. You are special enough to be talked about in any content. You just have to remember that you know that what they say is not true, so you can’t let it get to you. They don’t know you like the people that love you, people are always going to talk, just take it as you were special enough to be talked about.



Why is it that I have any room to talk about this situation? This has happened to me, I too was in high school once upon a time. The night I realized I wasn't going to care anymore what people say because I know it isn’t true and they know nothing about who I really am. I was on my way to a party and before getting out of my car an acquaintance came to my door and said not to go, that there was a note on the front door stating "People not allowed in: (my name) and a few others" This didn’t really bother me seeing how the girl throwing the party didn’t like me too much, and I was only going because a few of my friends wanted to go and I had nothing better to do. As I was about to shut my door a girl who I did not know came up to my door and started chatting with us, she said "isn’t that funny how (my name) isn’t allowed in, she is such a… blah blah blah." So at this point I realized that she had no idea who I was and that I was the girl she was gossiping about. I let her go on, I decided that this would be fun, so I asked her how she knew all this stuff about “her”, and she proceeded to say she knew "her". Long story short after she was done gossiping about me (to me) she stopped and introduced herself, I then stuck out my hand to shake hers and said "hello I am the so called horrible person you speak of..." She was so horrified pretty much motionless, I laughed told my friend we were leaving and drove away. That there was the moment I realized people are going to say hurtful things no matter what we do, they do not know the amazing person you are, so take it as a complement that you are special enough to be talked about. :)



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Love is Louder Movement

I have wanted to start a blog for a while now, but what to write about was the problem. What could I bring to the table what was worth reading? Then I had heard about Love is Louder, a movement to say that love is louder than any voice that causes pain or brings you down. It was started by Jed Foundation, MTV and actress Brittney Snow. If someone is feeling misunderstood, bullied, mistreated or alone, this movement is to raise the voice that "love and support are more powerful than the external and internal voices that bring us down, cause us pain, and make us feel hopeless." I believe that this is an excellent cause, and I am starting this blog to hopefully help people that are feeling hopeless, and talk about why life is great and that Love is Louder. :)